Sermon on Matthew 10:24-39
Pastor Jennifer Garcia
Happy Father’s Day!
As our Gospel reading says today:“For I have come to set a man against his father.” Wait, no, that’s not very celebratory.
How about: “Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me”—that’s worse!
Let’s try a different part: “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth; I have not come to bring peace but a sword”—that’s just a hard message to hear from Jesus all around.
This isn’t the “meek and mild” shepherd view of Jesus we sometimes hold onto.
But it isn’t a conqueror Jesus, or a jealous, controlling “you can’t love anyone but me” Jesus either.
Jesus, who blessed peacemakers, promoted loving our neighbor, and told Peter to put away his sword, wasn’t about warmongeringor hating people.
He was, however, realistic about how his message of God’s peace, inclusion, justice, and love would be received. He knew that people invested in the status quo wouldn’t be open to the upside-down Reign of God where the last shall be first and the first shall be last. They might even violently oppose it.
Jesus wasn’t going to sugarcoat his message to make it palatable for people who were made comfortable by systems that hurt and oppressed others.
He knew he would be called names like “Beelzebul” and would likely be arrested and executed for speaking against the exploitative values of the Roman Empire. So, as he was teaching his disciples to bring mercy and the Good News of the Beloved Community to those around them as we read last week, he was also preparing them for what the reactions of those in power would likely be.
If people were insulting Jesus, they would also insult his disciples.
If Jesus’ own hometown threw him out, his disciples’ families and neighbors would probably disown them as well.
If those in power threatened Jesus with violence, Jesus’ disciples were also in physical danger.
Jesus’ message about God’s Reign would be received poorly by some.
That’s still true today.
Christians disagree on a lot of things, to the point where people from two different denominations might hold opposing views on almost everything.
Too often it’s self-proclaimed Christians who hurl insults at each other. Too often it’s Christians who are known for exclusion.
Too often it’s the family of the Body of Christ that’s set against itself.
It’s enough to hurt one’s soul.
Our Southern Baptist siblings voted by almost three quarters last week to ban churches that allow women to be pastors or to preach. It’s easy to imagine why that was hard for me to hear.
And while so many churches proclaim that “all are welcome,” the best LGBTQ folks can expect in many congregations is bare tolerance, like “you’re welcome to sit in our pews, but if you don’t feel bad about yourself, then you’re not welcome until you’ve ‘repented.’ And don’t even think about asking if you can be part of a leadership team or lead worship music. But, of course, you’re welcome here.”
Churches—Roman Catholic and Protestant—have become known for sexual abuse and for going to great lengths to cover it up. That’s so far from the Christian value of protecting the vulnerable.
Sunday morning is still the “most segregated” time of the week instead of church being “a house of prayer for all nations,” like it says in Isaiah.We’re still feeling the legacy of racism and exclusion that stretches back centuries.
That the Church is known for exclusion, intolerance, discrimination, and abuse instead of the Beloved Community that Jesus came to invite us into hurts our souls.
The message of God’s peace, inclusion, justice, and love still isn’t always received well.
It requires us to be around people we would rather not spend time with. It challenges our ideas of who should be allowed to speak the word of God. It threatens our reputations and those of institutions we care about. It defies the way we’ve always done things around here. It’s uncomfortable, risky, inconvenient, and messy.
But if the world called Jesus names, his disciples should be living so much like him that the world calls them those names too.
If Jesus was going to be considered an enemy of the state to the point where he was arrested and executed, then his disciples needed to know what was on the line for them as well.
That’s what it means to take up the cross and follow Jesus.
Now, that doesn’t sound like very good news.
Even though Jesus wasn’t actually encouraging people to hate their families, it doesn’t sound like good news that he was teaching his disciples to live in a way that might result in their families hating them.
But he knew that the resulting Beloved Community would be worth it.
He promised that those who lost their life for his sake would find it.
He promised life for those who were so in love with the way of living he was inviting them into that it was worth the risk—people who were poor, outcast, suffering, and who saw something so beautiful in Jesus that they couldn’t look away, couldn’t pretend they hadn’t been changed by the possibilities he opened.
In other parts of the Gospels, he promised new family for those who would lose theirs for his sake.
Our LGBTQ siblings, many of whom have lost family members for being truthful about who our fabulously creative God made them to be, would call that “chosen family.”
Living fully into the identity God gave you might require sacrifice—Jesus was honest about that—and that loss is real and worthy of grief.
And,God doesn’t abandon us. God surrounds us with chosen family—people we aren’t necessarily related to who love us the way we are, support us in hard times, allow us to support them too, and who believe in God’s peace, inclusion, justice, and love.Then, we get to do our best to live that out together.
What does that look like? Honestly, I’m not entirely sure. I think we need artists and poets for that. It’s hard to imagine what God’s peace, inclusion, justice, and love look like when what we know is war, exclusion, injustice, and hate.
You probably saw in this week’s announcement email that the musicalHadestown will be in movie theaters for a few days in July. It was one of my favorite shows my family saw last year in London.It’s a retelling of the Greek tragedy of Orpheus and Eurydice. Hope you can join me for that—it’s a fantastic show (though it is a tragedy, so bring tissues).
Before we left on our trip, I started listening to the soundtrack, and three songs in, I burst into tears. Orpheus, who has a literal gods-given gift for music, is meeting Eurydice and has already fallen head over heels for her. He’s explaining that he’s writing a song because the seasons have gotten out of whack because of the gods.
He sings, “I'm workin' on a song
It isn't finished yet
But when it's done and when I sing it
Spring will come again….
A song to fix what's wrong
Take what's broken, make it whole
A song so beautiful
It brings the world back into tune
Back into time
And all the flowers will bloom”
I burst into tears in my kitchen, because the idea of a whole, unbroken, in-tuneworld was so beautiful I could hardly imagine it.
And the belief that music—art—could fix what’s broken in the world was so encouraging, hope leaked from my eyes.
That’s what Beloved Community could be. That’s what God is imagining and inviting us to be a part of.
It might cost everything, but Jesus promises to be with us and that it’ll be worth it.
Let’s join in the song.